there is no such thing as a ‘wrong dream’
16th July 2025
Today did not go as planned.
I had a pretty clear calendar – unusual – so I was going to embrace a day of admin and some creativity. Meaning some creative writing with the thoughts on my mind about relationships & bedroom bothers – it seems like this is a big topic for many of my clients and the clients I am attracting.
Lots of upsets in the bedroom – from people separating, to cheating, to wondering if they will ever go back to the ‘happy couple’ in the photo on the mantelpiece…to looking for the one true love that will make them feel they have found their person.
I have notes in all my journals on this and wanted to pull it all together in to one structured thought piece.
But no – the ‘boardroom’ for Unique Escapes had other ideas.
When you have high standards and your definition of luxury differs from others in outside of your boardroom, but that you rely on to keep business running, when that fails… you have to step in.
So today, I stepped in, called in cavalry I can rely on, and rolled up my sleeves too.
By 4pm, I had to lie on the grass.
The same grass, in the same green garden, that once upon a time came to me as a vision of hope, happiness and joy when I had very little of the same.
I have found this wonderful lady on instagram who I have a healthy obsess with - Victoria Darzynska.
Her reel today said..
“Chase the dream so you can find out.”
When I lay on that bed a decade ago, the vision was a dream I dared to believe in, even though I never thought I would find love again, even though I couldn’t even fathom how I would be happy again.
Through those dark times, I came across another book by ‘The Tools’ and my favourite tool has always been ‘jeopardy’ and it is one I use all the time. In a nutshell, I imagine myself lying on a bed as a 93 year old woman listening to the stories my family are reminiscing about my life, our life, the memories and the legacy I am leaving as I depart. It always makes me cry.
Now I pay attention to the dreams and visions that come to me in the early hours or when I am in stillness or meditation. And I chase them.
I don’t worry if they are right or wrong. I have made many mistakes, had dreams that fizzled out, or ended up being superceded by another.
The dreams were never wrong, they were just what I needed to give me a story and meaning to my life that one day I will hear be replayed back to me, knowing that I lived a good life, that I lived a life of no regret.
That I lived a life chasing dreams of joy & love & abundance… and none of that can be wrong.
So perhaps tomorrow, I will speak of relationships and love in more detail… as long as things pan out as expected.
From North Yorkshire, to wherever you are… this is your reminder to be brilliant in the boardroom, the bedroom & in your body.
Love always
Ali xo
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