Ali’s Blog
The Brilliant Years
The Recipe for Joy - using your Human Design
Joy isn’t something fluffy or fleeting. It’s the foundation of my life, my brand, and the energy I want to create a movement around.
When I made the decision to use my Human Design as a guide, everything shifted. It eased the process of finding alignment and sped up the creation of joy — because I finally had a framework for living a life I truly loved.
fire & rain
A client came to me with this question:
“How do I live with a partner who is consumed by anger, resentment, frustration — that spills out all over me? He uses me as an emotional punch bag, projecting his unprocessed feelings onto me.”
Cheating or Clever?
She walks into the boardroom, power-suit on, presentation prepared, mask firmly in place.
No one sees the silent tears she cried in the bathroom that morning.
No one hears the argument at home still ringing in her ears.
No one knows the ache in her chest or the knot in her stomach that’s been there so long it feels like part of her.
ships in the night
“We are like passing ships in the night.”
“I lie in the same bed every night with a stranger.”
“Where are the happy couple in the photo on the mantelpiece? What happened to them? Can we ever go back?”
“They are the life and soul of a party, motivate, inspire and lead all day and I get the grumpy, tired, angry version. Is that right? Is that normal?”
“I walk on eggshells the minute I walk in the door / when they walk in the door waiting to see which version I get.”
“I don’t understand how they could do that to me, to us? What did I do wrong? How can I make it better?”
“Do I stay? Or do I leave? What is the right thing to do? What would you do?”
“I just don’t feel appreciated. I don’t feel any connection at all..”
“I think there is someone else. I feel sick. I can’t be on my own. What do I do?”
“They’ve changed. We’ve changed. I don’t think we want the same things anymore. It’s just not the same.”
“I am no longer in love with them. Is just love, like or friendship enough?”
“I know I need to leave. I can’t do it any more. I can’t help them, support them any longer. But I am full of guilt and don’t know how or what to do.”